One of my favorite lists is the Policy, Action, Research List (PAR-L) operated out of the University of New Brunswick:
It is a bilingual, electronic network of individuals and organizations interested in women-centred policy issues in Canada. It is a support for the community of feminist researchers and activists in Canada and Québec.
The list is full of really smart mostly women with some men, a nice blend of bilingualism, and the content is top with literature, resources and debates that are absent from most of the mainstream media and most of the circles within which I navigate.
There have been some excellent activist, personal and academic discussions sparked by the Virginia Tech murders. Of note there was an excellent and frank discussion about how best to bring up sons, and this morning there were discussions about the focus on masculinity instead of humanity, and reflections on the common denominators of all the (recent North American) shootings: they have all been male (in 1988 there was a woman shooter see comments), they had easy access to guns many of which were semi automatic, people around them noticed unusual behaviour but either had no formal mechanism to act on their observations or just thought these men/boys were weird, they were mostly white except for the latest at VTec and the snipers and a fact I was not aware of many of these young men were on antidepressant prescription drugs.
I wonder when we are going to see public intelligent debate on this topic? I do not want to hear about only individuals i want to hear about a societal response and societal responsibility. Structures are at work here and these men/boys are dying & killing - canaries indicating that there are serious problems in the mine. They are not disconnected random acts of violence that require more metal detectors in schools (wonder who makes those!) and better police emergency response teams.
I want to hear about gun control, the arms trade, masculinity, mental health, antidepressant drugs, the lack of contact sports in schools, structural change, male drop out rates, domestic disputes (it was only a domestic dispute and that is why they did not warn the students!), social responsibility, violence in our media (film, music, video, video games), bullying, power and powerlessness, in and out groups and hero worship. And if we think these shootings are a small problem, well, i would argue that what we are seeing in Somalia, Afghanistan, Iraq, Darfur, Lebanon, Israel, BC pig farms, Ciudad Juárez, highway of tears, etc. are part of the same phenomena. Lets face it these are masculine based wars, feuds, led tribes, rapes and femicides. I am aware there are women on the periphery of all of these and I do not deny their complicity however the reality is that these crimes are led by men, committed by men, funded by male led organizations, and primarily fought by males and well most of the worlds major decision making organizations and bodies are led some uniformly by men (Security Council, G8, World Bank, Most multinational Corporations, Arms manufactures, departments of defence, and Government leadership). I am not male bashing, but the facts speak for themselves, they are common denominators, data, which cannot be overlooked and it seems that male shooters, rapists, murderers and led wars are not discussed in this light - as a male issue. I am not anti men, not in the least, some of my best friends are men
, but there is an element of our shared culture that has run amok and we are all to afraid to call it and label it for what it is.
Maybe you boyz and men can help me understand this, because there is a whole part of culture and society i am not comprehending right now, and the debates seem to be missing the biggest common denominator of all and I wish there was frank discussion, not name calling & bashing, but real reflection on the male aspect of these issues and how a male led approach inclusive of feminist and female approaches needs to be activated to deal with this. Faludi made the following great statement "l’essentiel ne consiste pas à se demander comment préserver leur masculinité, mais comment devenir plus humain".
Here are some of the articles and books referred to on PAR-L n the last little while:
- Virginia Tech Aftermath, Did Legal Drugs Play a Role in the Massacre? with comments here.
- Tuerie de Virginia Tech - La célébrité au bout du fusil, Sysiphe par Elaine Audet
- Stiffed, The Betrayal of the American Man, by Susan Faludi
- The Common Element, Feminista, by Allan Johnson
- From Jonesboro to Virginia Tech - sexim is fatal, but media miss the story, Women in Media and News (WMIN), by Jennifer L Pozner
- Mass Murderers and Women: What We’re Still Not Getting About Virginia Tech, Mother Jones by James Ridgeway